Friday, November 06, 2009

An Afrocentric Flair

The Kwanzaa Bride and I are on a journey to create the most FABULOUS Afrocentric Wedding. At one of our "Show and Tell" fittings. she brought her shoes for the second drop dead dress I am making.



Although they were very nice, I thought they were lacking a bit of .....well, Afrocentricity. We talked about gluing a cowrie shell in the front, but I worried it could fall off, plus it wasn't enough pizazz.



I also wanted to add beading. By poking a hole into the front, the beads were wired on along with the one cowrie shell. The Kwanzaa Bride says you can sell her anything with a cowrie shell.




The shoe looks great and will go perfectly with the dress.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Themed Weddings Lame or Awesome: Guest Post Emily Jacobson


Intergalactic I Do


Are wedding themes lame or awesome? It all depends on the theme and how far you carry it. Everyone wants to make their big day as personal and memorable as possible. Themes can help you do it. But to choose a weird or peculiar theme just to be unique is to risk turning your wedding into a freak show. 

You also want your celebration to be fun and enjoyable for everyone. That means choosing a theme that won't bore or turn off guests who don't share your enthusiasm about the theme.


Winter Theme: Invites Galore Wedding blog

A wedding theme is a good way to set a guiding principle for all the footwork to come. If you want a theme, choose it after the proposal and the purchase of engagement rings but before setting the date.
You don't want to choose a theme midstream and then have to go back and change everything. 

There are many general themes that will pull everything together. Winter themes, romantic themes and flower themes are all popular and can be low key.


Romantic Bouquet: Sugarplum Invitations, She Walks In Beauty Rustic Romantic Bouquet

Or go bolder with a celestial theme featuring a ceremony outside under the stars, telescopes for stargazing and a planetarium reception.

A vintage wedding is a tasteful way to spice up your wedding, while cultural themes can be unique and personal at the same time. These themes add dash and distinction to your celebration without going too left of center.


Colorful and Cultural Wedding Attire

Remember that although a theme is meaningful and personal to you, it may seem bizarre to someone else. A Gothic wedding complete with black wedding dress, graveyard ceremony, and spooky reception in an abandoned building may be perfect if your wedding guests are all Goth. But if you want to include friends and family from outside the circle, you run the risk of scaring them off.


Lucky In Love Wedding Blog

Another example is the Elvis theme. You may love "The King," but your guests may not relish the prospect of spending an entire day with him.


Elvis Impersonator UK

If an unusual theme is important to you, you might want to limit your guest list to a small group of people who share your enthusiasm, or at least accept you as you are. 



The biggest disadvantage of a themed wedding is coordination. You have less room to manoeuvre and everything has to match. This can create problems down the road. If you want a themed wedding without the hassle of coordinating it, consider a wedding package. There are wedding packages for many themes, and some providers will even create a themed wedding package just for you. You can also hire a wedding planner who specializes in the theme you want.

Thank you Guest Blogger Emily Jacobson. All very good suggestions
Visit her blog: Lady Likeable (Beauty, Fashion, Travel, Dating tips, and Ideas for Women)

Monster Of A Job


Photo from Creepy Cupcakes

Have a good laugh today

It's getting kind of scary out there. You've got no reception hall, you don't like the flowers and your mother is getting on your nerves. BOOOOO! It's the Rocky Horror Show, for real!

Planning a wedding is like haunting , I mean a daunting task. The maid of horror, um I'm sorry honor, is always missing. Everyone is acting strange. Talking about the wedding puts them into a strange zombie like trance. Your even thinking of having no kids at the wedding because Children of the Corn are not cute. Even your fiance` is starting to look like Herman Munster.

I could go on with more metaphors but you get the picture. Planning a wedding is a Monster of a job.


I wrote this in 2007 for an October issue of my monthly newsletter, Let's Get Married! (View the last newsletter here). By the way is fabulously informative and beautifully written :).

Friday, October 30, 2009

Get On The Bus



I got on the bus today for a mammogram. I have to admit I have not had an exam in a very long time. This is dangerous because early detection is your biggest alley in fighting this deadly disease. I jumped at the chance to get examined.

I know that you stop at my bridal blog for wedding tips. This is how I tied it into the wedding stuff. Your entire bridal party can make it a breast exam party. OK get your mind out of the gutter. Make an appointment with the van for the entire bridal party and include his mom, your mom, aunties, and play aunties too. After the exam go to lunch and toast being women taking charge of your health and for healthy results.
American Italian Cancer Foundation
Mobile Cancer Screening
Mobile Screening Schedule
Here's how you can Donate?

Thank you to the staff for the exam and for the information. It was priceless.






Remember, early detection does not mean a death sentence. Knowing is growing. There is support out there for you. JUST GET ON THE BUS!!!

Enter To Win


Photo from Best Spas in Vegas

“ENTER FOR A CHANCE TO WIN”
- It’s one of America’s favorite sayings, and now you can "ENTER FOR A CHANCE TO WIN" in Spa Week’s Monthly Giveaway program.

There is a new contest every month and you can log in here or go to Spa Week.com for contest info.

This month, you have an opportunity to win an entire skin care collection from Pevonia Botanica Skincare, Anti-oxidant or Brightening Serum from Skyn Iceland, hair products from Redken and Pureology, a lip gloss that benefits skin cancer research and so much more! In this economy, no one can turn down a free gift, so share these amazing giveaways with your bridal party and check them out for yourself (enter here). These amazing giveaways only last through December 1 so log on to www.spaweek.com/giveaways and ENTER TO WIN!

See what NYC Spa Week Customer speak out.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

The Caribbean Destination Wedding Expo



The Caribbean Destination Wedding Expo


Saturday October 31, 2009
11am to 5pm
Radisson NE Hotel
2400 Old Lincoln Highway
Philadelphia, PA

215.638.8300

Tickets $15.00


This event has real goodies for you to enjoy. The Caribbean cocktail bar, Live Caribbean Music, and Refreshments makes it a destination event I do! This Wedding Expo has great planning ideas that are all doooos and no booooos. There will be so much see, be sure to get there early to enjoy the all presentations and the Fashion Show.
And won't even have to say Trick or Treat to get the gift bag, plus you may win a prize.

The Caribbean Destination Wedding Expo

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Para Senoras Y Senoritas


A Rose Is A Rose


You'll be singing that Aretha Franklin song, Spanish Harlem with this rose clip from Maya's Ideas Etsy Shop. The shop is a garden of beautiful accessories like flower clips and headbands that have a cool femininity you want on the big day. What is even more beautiful, as a member of Etsyaoc.ning.com, 10% of their profits go to The Atlanta Food Bank.
Visit Maya's Ideas for these beautiful accessories and more.

This Just In

Sorry to bring you this info so late, but I just found it in a tweet myself. Guess that is why you have to keep up with this Twitter Stuff.



Lion in the Sun
of Park Slope is happy to announce our second
Brooklyn Bridal Blogger Evening
Mark your calendar for Wednesday, October 28th from 7 to 9 pm

Get excited to meet our wedding pros and bloggers as they discuss their favorite real weddings and real wedding tips. Delectable snacks and treats to be provided by Naturally Delicious.

Vane from Brooklyn Bride
Anne from “I will” to “I do”
Sarah from Brilliant Event Planning
Xochitl from Always a Blogsmaid
Loren from Naturally Delicious



Everyone will receive a 10% off coupon on future purchases at Lion in the Sun AND 10% off your Naturally Delicious menu if you book by the end of the year.

If you are interested in attending, please email shop@lioninthesunps.com and put “RSVP October 28th event” in the header.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Get Ready For The Big One



The Wedding Salon

November 2, 2009
4pm – 9pm
The Roosevelt Hotel
45 East 45th Street, NYC


Silvia Weinstock

The Wedding Salon features the must-have products and services for brides-to-be. At this one day event, you will meet face-to-face with the hottest vendors including Sylvia Weinstock, David Tutera by Faviana, CECI New York and Disney Fairy Tale Weddings!

See spectacular table decor, dresses, honeymoon destinations, invitations, musicians, photographers, florists and more! Learn the latest tips and trends for your wedding and find your missing vendors. There will be complimentary beauty services for brides from Bobbi Brown The Studio as well as a couture fashion show! Cocktails, Cake Tastings and Fabulous Gift Bags!

Now for the really good stuff! Use this promotional code for discount tickets:
CNY9P at www.WeddingSalon.com to get $15 promotional tickets ($50 Value, Admits 2)

For more information, call 212.631.7777 or email Info@WeddingSalon.com

Monday, October 26, 2009

Properly Cuffed


Everything Golden by Kaur Funktion

With flecks of gold this unique glass cuff link is apart of the Kaur Funktion Collection.
Authentic Italian glass that is infused with color. This is a fine gift for a man with distinguished taste and the perfect accessory for a beautifully tailored suit.

Wedding Salon Discount Tickets




The Wedding Salon
November 2, 2009
4pm – 9pm
The Roosevelt Hotel
45 East 45th Street, NYC

The Wedding Salon features the must-have products and services for brides-to-be. At this one day event, you will meet face-to-face with the hottest vendors including Sylvia Weinstock, David Tutera by Faviana, CECI New York and Disney Fairy Tale Weddings!

See spectacular table decor, dresses, honeymoon destinations, invitations, musicians, photographers, florists and more! Learn the latest tips and trends for your wedding and find your missing vendors. There will be complimentary beauty services for brides from Bobbi Brown The Studio as well as a couture fashion show! Cocktails, Cake Tastings and Fabulous Gift Bags!

Now for the really good stuff for promotional tickets $15 ($50 Value, Admits 2) Use code EBNYCP at www.weddingsalon.com or call 212.631.7777